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Finding our own tradition is ok
by Michelle Minnoch

Every year when Christmas rolls around there is always a controversy about something. Whether it is the thought of “Merry Christmas” becoming “Happy Holidays” or the fact a judge orders a Christmas Tree out of a provincial court house because “the Christian symbol might alienate people of other faiths”, there is always a hullabaloo about something.

While the idea of “tradition” may be going off the beaten path for some, as the years go by and society changes, so too will certain aspects of the holidays we have become accustomed to. I am not saying it is good or bad, that is just the way it is.

Here’s my take on it; Christmas, Chanukah or the holiday season means many things to different people. You and your family will always be doing something different then your neighbour or your co-worker; that’s the best part about the holidays. Everyone can find their own definition of their tradition.

For many people I know, it is a time for family to get together; for others it may be a day of just immediate family; there are some who do not have family to celebrate with; others spend time at their local shelters, helping those in need have a good day, with a hot meal and companionship with others.

No matter what your faith, everyone has their own definition of what they do over the holidays and no one is better than the other.

Many say Christmas is mainly a time for children, and as I am a big kid myself, I agree with that theory. Some have places to drive to see family and friends, while others stay in to welcome and feed their guests. I on the other hand fly to Alberta to spend time with my brother, sister in law and their three children. For me it’s an excuse to play for five days with my niece and nephews. And our Christmas tradition? We usually have dinner early enough so the family can get out of the house for a few hours, and take in a family movie for all to enjoy. With great family entertainment out this time of year, there is always a choice that is appropriate for ages four to fourteen (this year is a toss up between Charlotte’s Web, Happy Feet and Night at the Museum).

For me, that is my Christmas tradition and I love it. I not only get to spend time with family I only see once a year, but we are all together, doing something fun, and we always have a good time.

Of course, after Christmas comes New Years, which may be a time of reflection for some. People recall their accomplishments of the past year, their downfalls as well, and hopefully something is learned from that. Whether you reached a high and got the promotion at work you were striving for, or fell to a low and lost a loved one, reflection is always a good thing; just don’t dwell on things. Remembering is one thing, moving on and learning from the experience is another.

This year I will be reflecting on a great trip to Africa, a great sky diving opportunity, a fabulous job and friends and family who are happy and healthy. What more could a girl ask for?

On behalf of The Scope, I wish all of you a safe and happy (and healthy) Christmas /Chanukah/Holiday Season.