Prevent violence against women

November is the month designated to the elimination and prevention of violence against women.

Nov. 25 is the International Day to End Violence Against Women. Most Ontarians feel a personal responsibility for reducing woman abuse and recognizing the abuse is the first step.

The Neighbours, Friends and Families Campaign was announced by Sandra Pupatello, the minister responsible for women's issues earlier this year, as part of the provincial government's commitment to ending violence against women.

The campaign is being promoted across Ontario to raise awareness of violence against women so that help can be offered to women at risk of being abused as well as to men that are abusive. Campaign material is available in a number of languages including French and aboriginal languages among others.

For further information please visit the campaign website at neighboursfriendsandfamilie s.on.ca.

There are several signs of potential abuse, including the man constantly putting her down, he does all the talking and dominates the conversation, and checks up on her all the time, even at work.

He also tries to suggest he is the victim and acts depressed.

The man may also try to keep her away from people, acts as if he owns her, lies to make himself look good or exaggerates his good qualities.

He may also act superior and of more value than others in his home.

The woman may also appear apologetic and makes excuses for his behaviour or she becomes aggressive and angry.

She may be nervous talking when he's there, seems to be sick more often and misses work.

The woman may also try to cover her bruises, and makes excuses at the last minute about why she can't meet you or she tries to avoid you on the street

She may also seem sad, lonely, withdrawn and afraid, and uses drugs or alcohol to cope.

My Sister's Place offers safe refuge to women and their children who are fleeing the violence in their lives.

Staff are available to offer support and information 24 hours a day, and may be reached at 1- 800-461-5419.